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Message from the President //10.10.08
// vick germany
This is a hard message to write—it is my last one as
President of the San Francisco Dykes on Bikes® Women’s Motorcycle Contingent. After 5 years, I am stepping aside. Little
did I know when I raised my hand in response to an inquiry from Soni about
volunteering to become President (at that time there were very few people
attending meetings on a regular basis) that I would occupy that position for 5
years. It has been a ride with many twisties, hills and valleys! There have
been good times, especially in the rides rode, parades ridden, and friendships
made. The icing on the cake has to be the winning of our nearly 5 (almost as
long as my tenure as President!) year battle to trademark “Dykes on
Bikes®” earlier this year. There have also
been some harrowing patches where it felt like the organization and I were
skidding out of control. Luckily, the shiny side remained upright. Now with the
bylaws approved, a 14-member board of directors, including one newly minted
patch holder, a branching out of the SFDOBWMC, it is time for someone else to
lead this particular ride. Perhaps I’ll ride second to last (Soni always rides sweep) and enjoy the view of all those Dykes on Bikes® in front of me, sweeping around corners, pulling
out of turns, and racing down the straightaways to a new destinations.
But, before I ride off into the sunset, I must finish my
last President’s message!
One of the personal valleys I’m currently riding through is
the fact that my mom (‘Proud Mom’ from the SFLGBT Pride Parade) was diagnosed
with Parkinson’s disease the beginning of September. The diagnosis certainly
explains why she was not able to lift her leg onto my peg when she rode with me
in the parade this year. Since she first rode with me back in 2000, she joked
that I would have to get a sidecar for her when she got too old to get onto the
back of my bike. Although she is 72, I thought we had a few more years before
that happened. If she is able to walk in the Relay for Life next year, you can
bet that I will be putting on a fundraiser to help her meet her personal goal
of raising more than $1,500 (that is the goal she set for herself after this
year’s Relay for Life walk and before she found out that she has Parkinson’s).
On Saturday, September 20, Carrie, Toni, Janice, Laura, Max
F (also a b’day girl), Djuna, Max C, Jenel, Ren, Katie, Jeanette, Stacy (a
buddy), Paige, Kate H, Sandie M, Patty, Kate W, Erin, Margaret, Carol, Sandy C,
Liz, Sandra, and myself (I think that’s everyone; my apologies if I left anyone
out!) rode to Alice’s Restaurant for Soni’s 60th birthday brunch
celebration. The weather was foggy in SF, and drippy along Hwy. 35, but Alice’s
was all sunshine. Tegan and Rose met us at Alice's. We took over the back patio
and had a great time! It was an empowering feeling to have over 20 Dykes on
Bikes® take over a section of Alice’s! I
know photos were taken and I hope we’ll get some up on the website! Soni
‘conducted’ a rousing rendition of ‘Happy Birthday.’ For someone who did not
want us to go to any trouble for her 60th birthday, she certainly
enjoyed herself!
Later that night, Soni, Sandy C and her girlfriend, Kate,
Bronze and I attended the Folsom Street Fair Gala starring Joan Rivers. At
SFDOBWMC meetings, Kate is in her work clothes (she works for Harley Davidson),
but at the gala, she was in this cute black dress, that had me doing double
takes and working hard to keep my hands to myself! Sandy C wore a dress, too,
and I had to watch my hands (I swear they have minds of their own!). I was
dressed in formal leather. Sandy M and Ren were there representing other
aspects of the community. The food was wonderful (although the line moved
slowly) and so was the crowd. Joan spared no one from her wicked sense of
humor. It was a great event celebrating 25 years of the Folsom Street Fair.
Speaking of the Folsom Street Fait, the following Sunday,
September 28, the SFDOBWMC worked the motorcycle parking area and helmet booth
for Folosm. My thanks to the following people who volunteered: Anthony, Sandie
M., Sandra, Sandy C., Zach, Raven, Rondi, Rose, Liz, Paige, Katie, Joy, Kate
H., Carrie, Jackie, Kate W., Max F, Kelly, Leslie, Cordelia, Sharon, and Soni.
We parked over 100 bikes and checked a number of helmets and probably some
clothes, too. I was there for most of the day, but ended up volunteering for
about 2 ½ hours at the Alameda County Leather Corps’ beverage booth,
which was down the block from us. They thought they were getting a single
booth, but got a double instead and did not have enough people. Man—it
was non-stop—there were many thirsty people at the Folsom Street Fair!
I’ll take working at the motorcycle parking area over slinging margaritas and
cosmos any time.
In the afternoon on October 1, I attended the civic
celebration of the life of Del Martin, wearing my Dykes on Bikes® colors—my way of paying tribute to a woman
who paved the way for later generations of lesbians/dykes to live out lives and
for organizations like the SFDOBWMC. It was an incredible experience to be in
the Rotunda of City Hall, looking at the assembled dignitaries, but more
touching was to see so many women who may have left work early like me to
attend. While there were a number of speeches from those dignitaries (Newsom,
Rev Cecil Williams, etc), the one speech that stuck in my mind was by Del’s daughter—Kendra
Mon. While talking about her mom, she said that “… Mom was not an
extraordinary person, but rather a person who accomplished extraordinary
things. This is important because each of us is needed to continue her work - -
our work. It would be a shame if you left today, thinking that Mom was somehow
bigger or bolder than you could ever be. In my view, what was extraordinary
about what Mom did, and what Mom and Phyllis did together, is that they had
clarity of purpose, set seemingly impossible goals and then just never quit.”
With those words ringing in my ears, I attended my last SFDOBWMC meeting as
President later that evening.
On the evening of October 1, the SFDOBWMC elected its first
Board of Directors. The new directors are (in no particular order): Sandie M,
Liz, Kate H (I got to give Kate H her patch as one of my last acts as President),
Sandy C, Paige, Eleanor, Soni, Katie, Kelly, Sheila, Rose, Glenne, Zach, and I.
There are 3 new officers: Sandy C (President), Katie (Vice President) and Sheila
(Treasurer). Sandy will take over the duties of President at the October 15
meeting, so she will be writing the monthly President’s message. Nearly
everyone’s photo is on the members page, except for Zach, Kate, Sandie M, and Glenne. Their photos
will go up soon.
I hadn’t planned on making a speech, but I did, and if you
asked me what I said, I honestly can’t tell you. Soni asked for it for me to
write my ‘speech’ for the minutes, but I had not prepared anything. The themes
I touched on, however, were the good and hard times noted earlier in this
message. I also expressed my optimism for the organization because of the
incredible women who are currently involved. I am looking forward to seeing where
they will take the SFDOBWMC. I exhorted each of them to realize that they can
do extraordinary things—what better way to honor someone who helped shape
our lives today and to pave the way for those who come after.
On October 9, Katie,
Sandy C, Paige, Kelly, Zach, Glenne, and Sheila will be representing the
SFDOBWMC at the GLBT Historical Society’s Gala. Me? I’ll be over in Oakland
meeting and greeting hundreds of butches and femmes at the Annual Butch-Femme
Bash that runs from October 9 – 12.
The weekend of October 11 – 13, Kelly is representing the SFDOBWMC in the Queer
Biker Invasion of Death Valley. The "official" ride starts
on Castro Street between 17th and 18th Street on Saturday, October
11, 2008 at 8:00 a.m.
The next SFDOBWMC ride will be on November 16 . Kelly will be leading a ride to the Harley Goat
Farm. Details to be posted on the Events & Rides page soon. As part of the November 16 ride, Kelly, in association with The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, will be
auctioning off the back of her bike at a fundraiser on November 8 from 2 – 10 pm at Wild Side West (424
Cortland, SF). Join Sister Sara Femme and the Sisters of Perpetual indulgence
as they present "Puss in Boots": a kinky cabaret to benefit San
Francisco Women Against Rape. An evening of Power and Empowerment
with emcee, Bubblinsugare, and performances by Simone de la Getto, Twilight
Vixen Revue, Fat Chance Belly Dance, Madame Butterfly, Miss Gay SF Bebe,
Sweetbriar, Simone Campbell, Palm Theresa, the Bay Area Derby Girls, and more!
Catering by Captain's Fun in the Bun. Services by IMsL Boot Black Miss V. For
more information call 510-282-1020. This should be a fabulous event! I hope to
see you there!
Mark your calendars (in our soon to be released SFDOBWMC
2009 calendar!) for the following SFDOBWMC rides. Details will be posted on the
website under Events and Rides as the ride details get worked out. Here are the dates:
- Dec 28, 2008
- Jan 25, 2009
- Feb 15 - Bitter Bikes Ride
- March 15
- April 19
- May 17
- June 6 - 7 Ride to Santa Cruz’s Pride Parade
- June 20 – Ride to San Jose’s Pride Parade
- June 28 – SFLGBT Pride Parade
- July 18 -19
- Aug 23
- Sept 20
- Oct 10-12 SFDOBWMC goes to the Queer Biker Invasion of Death
Valley
- Nov 29
- Dec 20
As I noted above, coming this month is our very own
calendar! Yes, you will be able to purchase a 2009 SFDOBWMC calendar featuring
some of the members of the Dykes on Bikes®.
We’re printing a limited number of copies; so once we have them, don’t delay in
ordering yours!
It has been a pleasure writing these messages and I hope
you’ve enjoyed them as well. In closing, I hope each one of you do something
extraordinary. After all, we are Dykes on Bikes®!
Well, for the final time, I hope all of you Ride Safe and
Ride Proud.
Vick Germany
See also
Message from the President - Archive
//9.17.08 // max
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